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| Fro Boy11 1697th Post
 
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|  "Re(1):Being dumped sucks"
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Argh. I feel so miserable. My Japanese girlfreind Saori broke it off with me. I feel so fucking hurt.
I usually don't take personal stuff on any forum,but I felt since this was my first real forum,and everyone I know here is understanding(except Onslaught),figured I'd poor out my soul.
It was a fly-by-night romance. We went out a couple of months before she went back to Japan in March. She came to my state this week and said it was wise to just..fuck.
I'm sure you all can relate.
Even when I broke it off with my high school sweetheart 3 years ago. I was happy. But I'm so fucking hurt right now.
I don't think I'll love again for a while now. I can't take it. This is gonna affect my art,too. I can feel it.
I know,I sound like a whiny dumbass. But fuck,life has been harsh lately.
Man, I've been there before, but not with the just fucking thing. That would have worked for me at the time. But we broke it off and I was crushed too. That was 2 years ago, but I've been getting out and meeting new girls and having fun with them (not fooling around and stuff, yet though), but there's ONLY 1 girl that I'm interested in right now. You'll be OK, but it'll take some time. Trust me.
BTW, I saw the girl that broke up with me 2 years ago in the mall today. She still looked good, but she was also pushing a baby carriage. We just stared at each other while we passed by each other. We didn't say a word to each other. There's still some resentment there.
You'll be cool, TE. It's best to talk to a friend about this stuff too.
MATT FACTS: Matt hates cold weather.
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| Grave 372th Post
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| "Re(3):Being dumped sucks" , posted Thu 12 Jun 23:29
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I love smoking. Funny thing is I used to be an advent against smoking, until, as a joke, my girlfriend (now and ex) got me a pack of cigerettes on my 18th birthday. Now I'm doing about half a pack a day of unfilters ^_^;
Like Led Zepplin says, "Soul of a woman was created below!!!" You'll get over her. Just remember the Papaleo's number one rule on dating: don't chase them, replace them :)
I also like smoking, against all better judgement. I used to be against it, too, until I started doing it. I mean, think about all we know about smoking, how bad it is for you, blah blah blah... doesn't change the fact that it's nice to do.
I'm right now struggling with the fact that I quit - totally - for a girl. Fell in love with this girl and have spent the last... well, it's almost 9 months now, chasing after her, and after many heartbreaking events, the rejection is sinking in and I'm slowly getting better at handling things. The last few weeks have been some of the hardest ever.
And now I'm wondering if I should start again, because I reeeaaally want to, but I've done fine holding out so far, and I think I can continue to fight it. Sigh.
But yeah, TE... things are hard. And I mean, at least you had some good times with her, right? No one can take that away. At least she didn't just... reject you without ever giving you a real chance, even though she says she cares about you so much and...
Um, yeah. Shit. I'm gonna stop talking now.
Love is stupid. 
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| Mosquiton 781th Post
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| "Lammy and advice" , posted Fri 13 Jun 10:37:
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Also, in times of trouble... remember the immortal words of Parappa. Ya Gotta Believe.
Sometimes I think I'm the only goddamn person here who's ever played that game.
Not so. I loved that game. Still play it a lot, too.
But sometimes false hope doesn't help either. Believing in something that'll never happen is just as destructive as giving up on something that may.
Lammy was awesome damnit! Don't listen to Freeter, Fro. Unlike Parappa's lyrics (dope though they may be), guitar riffs don't sound too f'ed up when run together. Lammy did and continues to rock, IMO. Definitely check it out for yourself, and try the 2 player if you can, it most definitely kicks ass. Parappa 2 on the other hand, yeah. I try to forget it exists.
And I mean "Ya Gotta Believe" with a broad meaning, not believe that your girl will get back together with you or that your hamster will be brought back from the dead... just believe things will work out and be cool (that's an instruction btw).
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| Sano
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| "Re(1):Lammy and advice" , posted Fri 13 Jun 10:52
I dated a woman for three years and than she dumped me. Didn't hurt much, 'cuz the feeling was mutual. A month later, I found out she was Pregnant! AAAAH! Long story but it turned out the baby wasn't mine. That was the biggest scare I ever had. For now, I enjoy being single, and am not ready for a relationship just yet. Hey, you know what Single stands for, right?
Staying
Intoxicated
Nightly and
Getting
Laid
Everyday!
And as an artist myself, pain does allow you to go to deeper places. Example - Next time you draw Shiki, picture her as your EX - THAT WILL BE THE EVILEST LOOKING SHIKI EVER!!! Just an example, hope this message cheers you up! I don't get laid everyday, but once in a while and that's cool.
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| Amakusa
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| "Re(1):Being dumped sucks" , posted Fri 13 Jun 13:45
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I'm sure you all can relate.
Even when I broke it off with my high school sweetheart 3 years ago. I was happy. But I'm so fucking hurt right now.
I don't think I'll love again for a while now. I can't take it. This is gonna affect my art,too. I can feel it.
You know, while others are saying you'll get over it, I'm going to go against the grain and say:
You'll NEVER get over it. It will affect you for the rest of your life, and it will eat you in your dreams until you're begging for mercy and wish you were dead. One day you may decide you have to release your feelings in art, and over time, it will hurt less. One day, you'll realize it doesn't control your life, and that will be the best five hours of freedom you'll ever have before you go to sleep, and DREAM the same damn dream again, and remember how shitty you felt when it happened. You then realize you can't escape it because it's too much a part of you, and you can't let it go. To deny it is to deny a part of yourself, and that is unacceptable.
There's no way you can just 'let it go' or 'get over it.' It's with you for life.
I found Kagami's sword in a junk yard.
I also provide nothing useful to the gaming community.
"Dink-a-dink-a-dink-a-do."
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| Sano
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| "Re(2):Being dumped sucks" , posted Fri 13 Jun 14:06
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You'll NEVER get over it. It will affect you for the rest of your life, and it will eat you in your dreams until you're begging for mercy and wish you were dead. One day you may decide you have to release your feelings in art, and over time, it will hurt less. One day, you'll realize it doesn't control your life, and that will be the best five hours of freedom you'll ever have before you go to sleep, and DREAM the same damn dream again, and remember how shitty you felt when it happened. You then realize you can't escape it because it's too much a part of you, and you can't let it go. To deny it is to deny a part of yourself, and that is unacceptable.
There's no way you can just 'let it go' or 'get over it.' It's with you for life.
Of course he'd say that! HE'S CALLED AMAKUSA!!!
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| Dr Baghead 2301th Post
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| "Re(2):Being dumped sucks" , posted Fri 13 Jun 15:36
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You know, while others are saying you'll get over it, I'm going to go against the grain and say:
You'll NEVER get over it. It will affect you for the rest of your life, and it will eat you in your dreams until you're begging for mercy and wish you were dead. One day you may decide you have to release your feelings in art, and over time, it will hurt less. One day, you'll realize it doesn't control your life, and that will be the best five hours of freedom you'll ever have before you go to sleep, and DREAM the same damn dream again, and remember how shitty you felt when it happened. You then realize you can't escape it because it's too much a part of you, and you can't let it go. To deny it is to deny a part of yourself, and that is unacceptable.
There's no way you can just 'let it go' or 'get over it.' It's with you for life.
truer words, my friend, truer words.
Devil May Cry:the movie - A ViewAskew Production?
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| Juke Joint Jezebel 1994th Post
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|  "Re: This thread is stupid"
, posted Fri 13 Jun 16:17:
How many brain cells have you lost rea -- whoops! i was temporarily possessed by his presence. and now i will end with some video game quotes
"Life is comfort, joy, love - all those things. But life is also pain. Without it, we do not hope, we do not dream. Nor live." -- Elena, Grandia II
"... But, it is the pain that reminds you what is truly precious.
... In sadness, we find our humanity." -- Roan, Grandia II
you can either sit there and sulk and write goth vampire poems all day, or you can roll all that hatred into a tiny little ball and release it the next time someone cuts you off on the freeway. it's up to you, really
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Juan destroyed Melty Blood
Just feel the way when the motion is right.
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| Fro Boy11 1712th Post
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| "Re(2):Being dumped sucks" , posted Fri 13 Jun 16:19
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I'm sure you all can relate.
Even when I broke it off with my high school sweetheart 3 years ago. I was happy. But I'm so fucking hurt right now.
I don't think I'll love again for a while now. I can't take it. This is gonna affect my art,too. I can feel it.
You know, while others are saying you'll get over it, I'm going to go against the grain and say:
You'll NEVER get over it. It will affect you for the rest of your life, and it will eat you in your dreams until you're begging for mercy and wish you were dead. One day you may decide you have to release your feelings in art, and over time, it will hurt less. One day, you'll realize it doesn't control your life, and that will be the best five hours of freedom you'll ever have before you go to sleep, and DREAM the same damn dream again, and remember how shitty you felt when it happened. You then realize you can't escape it because it's too much a part of you, and you can't let it go. To deny it is to deny a part of yourself, and that is unacceptable.
There's no way you can just 'let it go' or 'get over it.' It's with you for life.
Man, you just described the last 3 years of my life in one paragraph.
Well said.
Still waiting for a Dan Hibiki and Robert Garcia dream match!
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| Fro Boy11 1713th Post
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| "Re(1):Re: This thread is stupid" , posted Fri 13 Jun 16:24
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How many brain cells have you lost rea -- whoops! i was temporarily possessed by his presence. and now i will end with some video game quotes
"Life is comfort, joy, love - all those things. But life is also pain. Without it, we do not hope, we do not dream. Nor live."
"... But, it is the pain that reminds you what is truly precious.
... In sadness, we find our humanity."
you can either sit there and sulk and write goth vampire poems all day, or you can roll all that hatred into a tiny little ball and release it the next time someone cuts you off on the freeway. it's up to you, really
What game did you get that quote from? Anyway, play a fighting game if you wanna release some hatred. Road rage works too though.
Still waiting for a Dan Hibiki and Robert Garcia dream match!
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| Grave 374th Post
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| "Re(1):Re: You're not doing it right" , posted Fri 13 Jun 18:29
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You don't have the balls to tell it how it is. Remember that next time you think it's funny to beg for sympathy.
Actually, I think you just look at the bleak side of things way too much, and if anyone says anything vaguely positive, you're ready to shoot them down. That's not cool either.
I've been pretty depressed lately myself, but things are looking up again. Bad things happen, and no, you don't forget them, but they won't haunt you for the rest of your life. You do move on. You can't forget, no, but it's not going to torture you that badly. Unless, of course, you're severely disturbed and have no interest in bettering yourself. TE will be okay someday, but yeah, right now, it's gonna hurt like hell.
No one relationship is the end of love. Bad experiences take a while to heal from, and you won't forget them, but future good experiences can lessen that to the point where it no longer bothers you... just a memory.
I think your stance on things is totally pessimistic, and not totally grounded in reality, either.
But then again, I'm totally freaking nuts myself, so nobody should listen to me, anyway. When anger and aggression gets to be too much to contain, I've been considering buying a survival knife and fighting wild animals. So yeah. Not the one to be coming to for good advice.
But this whole thread is kinda nuts. I know it's good to vent, TE, and a lot of people here do understand what you're going through, and it is gonna get better someday... but I don't know if this was the place to come for kind words and advice, heh.
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| OYashiroForever 265th Post
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| "Re(4):Being dumped sucks" , posted Fri 13 Jun 18:58
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I didn't like the 2nd one that much though.
Parappa was the only saving grace of that game. Lammy was lame.
Actually, Freeter, I believe the original quote was referring to Parappa 2, the inferior sequel (though I could certainly be wrong). Lammy, on the other hand, was the shit. All about the airplane stage. I had all kinds of good freestyles for that one. ANYWHO... not the point.
ET: A wise man once said "I need a third gender! I'm not into guys, and women are too much for me! I need something in between!" All kidding aside, there's no words anyone here could give you that will make it all go away or even make it hurt less. We're all different and, therefore, react and handle these types of things differently. You've just gotta go through the natural grieving process and you'll come out the other side a better (and hopefully wiser) man for it. Good luck.
"Only two things are infinite the universe and human stupidity and I'm not sure about the former."
"Your denial is beneath you and thanks to the use of hallucinogenic drugs I see through you."
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